Thinking of You / Carol Just stopped in to let you know I will be thinking of you as this holiday season is upon us. God Bless to you and your family.... http://www.mosesvargas.com
The Pain / Trisha/Vistor Christina Valle Mem-of I was at the site for my precious neice, christina, and i came across your site, I could not leave without saying you are in my prayers, and i know the pain, my sweet Christina, took her life on oct 17th 2005, not even a month ago, She was in the hands of a husband that abused, she had 3 children, and this man placed alot of fear in her, that is why she stayed, we were around her as much as we could be, we did everything we could to make her leave, she finally did so, but it was to late, after 7 months of leaving she took her life, because she believe the words of this man, and she had been very depressed. He push her to think she was nothing, The pain is unthinkable, i miss her so much, but I know, we the ones left behind are not to be blamed. If it wasnt for the abuse, i dont think the depression would have gotten out of control, Medication didnt help her, she said it seem like nothing was working, I know you love your precious Stephen with all your heart, and I know the pain you feel, I pray for peace, and some comfort for you, and ones that love Stephen, I pray you can find some comfort in knowing, that your sweet Stephen, is with our sweet Tina, in Heaven, Running on streets of Gold. In all his Glory. God Bless
MY CHILD / SELMA FLYNN BOBBO.MEMORY-OF.COM (friend) "MY child
On the day God took you
I thought that I would die
I wondered where the time went?
I asked alot of whys??
With people all around me
I felt alone inside
From all their words of comfort,
I couldn't seem to hide, I thought I might be dreaming
That I'd wake and find you here,
I thought "This can't be happening."
As I wiped another tear.
On the day that you were laid to rest
My heart broke yet again,
I wondered if the pain would end,
But mostly, I wondered when??
It's hard to be without you,
At times the days seem long,
Sometimes I just sit crying,
When there's really nothing wrong.
I wish we'd had more time,
Before your life was done.
I hope your resting peacefully,
My precious child,
Journey of Grief / Wanda Farmer Hi Sallie, It was a pleasure to hear about your handsome young man . Thank you for sharing his life with me at the retreat . I will never forget you or your precious son . May God always be beside you on your journey of grief and know my prayers will be with you every step of the way .
Im sorry / Kelle Im so sorry to hear about your son. I just recently lost my best friend to suicide and i know how horrible the hurt is. My prayers are with you and your Family. May God keep Stephen in his loving arms Kelle
To His Mom Form another Mom. / Barbara White (Stranger) To Stephen's Mom,
I know what you are going thru, I pray that you will be alright. I just lost my only child to a drunk driver 2/19/05 nine days after his 33rd birthday. We were truely blessed to be a part of there lives, but they were only traveling thru here for a little while to visit with us, God had bigger plans for them. We will see them again. I miss my Son so much I have problems eating, I've had a nervous breakdown. Joining this site is one of the best things I could have done. I will be praying for you and your family.>> http://anthony-stancilwhite.memory-of.com
Love
Barbara White Anthony's Mom
im sorry / Thinking Of You im so sorry for your loss. my cousin commited suicide last year and i know how hard it is to lose someone. im so sorry. the pain is unbearable. im praying for you and your family. god bless you
i think you would like this pome / Shayna Slycord (stanger) To my Dearest Family,
Some things I'd like to say, But first of all to let you know, that I arrived okay. I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God Above. There's no more tears of sadness; There is just eternal love. Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight. Remember that I am with you every morning, noon, and night. That day I had to leave you, when my life on earth was through. God picked me up and hugged me and said, "I Welcome You, It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone. As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on." "I need you here badly, you're part of my big plan. There's so much that I have to do, to help our mortal man." God gave me a list of things that he wished for me to do. And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you. And when you lie in bed at night and the day's chores put to flight. God and I are closest to you...in the middle of the night. When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years. Because you are only human they are bound to bring you tears. But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain. Remember there would be no flowers, unless ther was some rain. I wish that I could tell you that what God has planned. If I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand. But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is over, I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before. there are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb; but together we can do it by taking one day at a time. It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too; That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you. If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain; then you can say to god at night... "My day was not in vain." And now i am contented...that my life was worthwhile. Knowing as I passed along the way I made someone smile. So, if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low; just lend a hand to pick them up, as on your way you go. I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind. And when it's time for you to go...from that body to be free. Remember your not going...your're coming here to me...
I know what it's like / Shauna (visitor) I have a friend that passed away last February who is featured on this site and i notice Stephen. He was about my age so it caught my attention. I had another friend who about a year and a half ago commited suicide himself. He was the first friend I ever had. I understand what it's like to wonder what you could have done to stop this. I understand the anger and the sadness. I am sorry that Stephen felt there was no way out. I'm sure he is with you every day! I know that he loves each and every one of you and he is your angel.
To Stephen,My Son's Angel Friend / Marvin &. Charlene Hardin (My Son's Angel Friend ) Stephen it is my Honor to sign your guest book. Hope you and my
son are catching some big fish, save a good spot for me.Stephen
you will be missed by many,but never Forgotten,and ALWAYS!!
LOVED!!!!!!!!
Marvin Pop of Marvin Jr.(Marvo)
Hello well im so sorry to hear about your beloved stephen he was hansome i'm 16 years old and i just lost one of my bestfriends Chad Harris from suicide i'm sorry about stephen i can somewhat feel what you feel exepct he was your son chris was a very good friend it hurts alot and if youd like email me back please Jenn
Passing through to visit / Carol I seen the picture of your angel Stephen and felt the need to pay a visit. I am so very sorry for your heartbreaking loss. I know there are no words that I can say to comfort you or to ease your pain however please accept my sincere words. Thank you so very much for allowing others in to see and know your dear angel. Big ((hugs)) to you and your family. God Bless... http://www.mosesvargas.com
Hi my names lauren i didn't know anything about this young man until i stummbed across this site...it's very tounching to know that he has a family who cared so much about him. Thats the most important thing...he was very lucky.
passer by / Beccy Wadsley (passer by ) Stephen is on the features list, where my friend Gemma used to be, i know that her parents found comfort in the words of others that understand their pain. Congradulations to your son for quitting drugs, you must be very proud of him. Drugs, and the effects of them kill so many people. my dad was doing good, and then a woman on drugs stabbed him in the heart,she only got 2years because she was on drugs, like its an excuse for murder. i never really knew him and because of drugs i never will. Because of drugs i have never had a family, this is the one thing that you obviously have, their love and support will get you through this.You have memories, and you cant put a price on that. At Gems funeral, her boyfriend Al said that the body is there so that the soul can express itself, so just because we cant see her, that doesnt mean that shes not here. that speach helps me through each day, and i hope that it helps you too. Your memories will always help you, im so sorry for your loss, im sure that your son loved you very much and that is why he didnt tell you about his problem. love beccy x
Never say good-bye / Cassandra (Stranger) Now it's the time to say good bye promise me that you don't cry think about what the future holds there's always a time to say hello I love you more than words can say and i will miss you more every day i'll remember our last days together & promise to be there forever . even though we'll be apart there will always be a bond in our hearts so wipe the tears please don't cry Cause we will never say good bye
Wishing you....... / Diane Cassidy- Angel Mom
Wishing you Peace to bring comfort Courage to face the days ahead and Loving Memories to forever hold in your hearts!!
God Bless each and everyone of you who love and miss your Wonderful Stephen!!
My heartbreaks for you, only as another Angel Mom's could!!
My Special Angel-Katie-moved to Heaven 5-18-05
So sorry / Jeanice Hobson (none) I also lost my son Steven he was 16 along with my best friends 15yr old son. We lost them to a tragic car accident on Dec 4 2004. I do know what you are going threw when something unexpected like this happens. You ask yourself why did this have to happen. but only god knows what is best for all of us. I know for myself at times it dont help. Your son was a very handsome young man. I know he is watching over each and everyone he loved and knew.. May god bless you all and all i can say take things day by day.
Just Hold My Hand / Diane Cassidy-Angel Mom-Katie
Don't tell me that you understand, don't tell me that you know Don't tell me that I will survive, how I will surely grow. Don't tell me this is just a test, that I am truly blessed That I am chosen for this task, apart from all the rest. Don't come at me with answers that can only come from me Don't tell me how my grief will pass, that I will soon be free. Don't stand in pious judgement of the bonds I must untie Don't tell me how to suffer, don't tell me how to cry. My life is filled with selfishness, my pain is all I see But I need you, I need your love Unconditionally. Accept me in my ups and downs, I need someone to share. Just hold my hand, and let me cry and say "My friend, I care."
Rest Peacefully / Katie Nearing (Passer by: Fellow Survior of suicide ) I was updating my memorial site for my brother, Kyle Nearing whom also died from suicide; and came across Stephen's site. My heart goes out to anyone touched by Stephen. I too, know the painful aftermath of losing a loved one to suicide. "All who have been touched by beauty, are touched by sorrow by it's passing." I may never know or understand the many questions I still have for my brother, but I am sure that both Stephen and Kyle will continue to help others even in death. May they rest peacefully, and your family find solice in the memories you share with the ones you love. "To live in the hearts of those we leave behind, is not to die."
A caring online friend / Donna Miller I just happened to come upon this site- and my heart goes out to this young man and his family. It hits home knowing that we feel something isn't quite right with our son's personal life- yet we want to give him space to learn and grow.... there is no right answer.. only that every day we have with our children.. is a true gift. I, myself, pray every day that my 19 yr old son is safe, is able to safely make his way back home each night without danger, and knows how much his family always will love him no matter what he is going though. The young pictures of Stephen remind me of my son at that age. I lost my sister to a drug overdose just under 2 years ago... Know that you aren't alone- and thank you for sharing your story and wonderful memories of your son- Love and prayers to your family Donna
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